Take Your Relationship From Surviving To Thriving!

  • Learn to talk and resolve instead of fuss and fight

  • Create the marriage your heart needs

  • Leave a legacy of healthy relationships for your children

Nothing is more frustrating than not being able to communicate with each other. When you can't communicate you can't resolve conflict, which means you cannot create a deeper connection.

If you are like most couples, you guys struggle with communication and conflict resolution. No matter what you try, no matter how many times you agree to do better, you always ended in the same place of frustration and distance. 

I want to assure you that it can be turned around. Marriage is God's idea. There are real answers to the issues of marriage in God’s word. I use my academic mind mixed with my biblical mind to help couples shift their marriage. Learning the relational skills you need is only part of the perfect equation to create a successful marriage. God is the other part.

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The Hidden Blessing In Your Conflict
The Hidden Blessing In Your Conflict

You may be blaming your partner for things they are not responsible for.

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Don't Forget Your Part
Don't Forget Your Part

While you are asking your partner to treat you differently, make sure that you understand the role you play.

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Make "Seeking Understanding" A Priority
Make "Seeking Understanding" A Priority

You and your spouse do not live in the same world. You never will. Your internal dictionary is different than theirs so misunderstanding happens easy.

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Be Kind Even When You Do Not Agree
Be Kind Even When You Do Not Agree

When yo guys disagree, sometimes it is hard to still be kind to one another. I want to encourage you to make kindness and respect your default.

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Have As Much Healthy Sex As Possible
Have As Much Healthy Sex As Possible

Listen. Forsake not the assembling of yourselves in the bedroom! If you want to have a successful marriage, you have to do like Martin said: “Knockin da boots Gina, Knocking da boots!”

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Protect Your Connections At All Cost
Protect Your Connections At All Cost

When we humans are well connected, we thrive. Your marriage will suffer severely if you guys are disconnected too long too often. God created us for connection. Protect it at all costs.

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Protect The Trust At All Cost
Protect The Trust At All Cost

Without trust it is impossible to have a healthy marriage. Trust is earned in drips but lost by the buckets. You must protect the trust in your marriage at all costs.

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Do It For The Vine
Do It For The Vine

What is your “why” for the way you love your partner? If you are loving them only for their satisfaction then you are in danger of being a flaky lover.

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