It is always interesting when clients come to therapy with their own answers to their problems. There are different things people reject but this particular post is about rejecting God without even trying Him. My questions is, whats the worst that can happen?
A lot of times we are resistant to what we do not understand and this becomes a prison for us. Sometimes, life simply doesn’t make sense to the human mind…can you still receive it when you do not understand it?
Don’t you wish they would just be who you want them to be? Life would be so much easier if they would just act right. This mindset will erode a healthy relationship. Read here about what you can do instead of trying to control your mate.
When you find yourself fighting about things that you feel are not things you should be arguing about, you are problem stuck fighting about something other than the core issue. There is one question at the root of almost every argument…
We spend a lot of time hiding behind the elusion of strength and having it all together. The reason we hide is because of debilitating shame. We work so hard to make people think we are not human, just like the man behind the curtain in The Wizard of Oz.
So many are longing for love. But is it a longing to be loved or to give love? We want love without the cost of it. We want the victory with no battle. We want to be conquerors without ever having to fight.
Just like there is a silent destroyer of your home (termites) there is also a silent destroyer of your marriage. You must be diligent about eradicating and protecting your marriage from the silent destroyer.
It is a myth that just because you are married then you don't have to work to keep your mate. It would be great if that were true, but the reality is it's not. Don't make it easy for the clean-up woman (or man).
It's 5 days into the New Year? Have you started doing what it takes not to repeat 2016? Most people who want something different are not willing to do something different in order to create the change they say they need.
Couples spend a lot to time protesting for their spouse to meet their needs but they usually only end up frustrating themselves. The key to healing ourselves inside is actually to focus more on others, namely your significant other. This is one of the great benefits of therapy, to help you live from the outside in.